The Rushed Sale
You push for the sale.They agree. You chose for them.It won’t last.
You push for the sale.They agree. You chose for them.It won’t last.
You feel like you’re 95% there.Then it stalls. You send more information.Rework the proposal.Lower the price. And it still doesn’t convert. Your view of progress doesn’t count.
I’ll call you in three months. Two years later, they’re still in your pipeline.Not active. Just hopeful. False hope feels productive.
They didn’t get it.You move on. Try again with someone new.They don’t get it either. So you move on.
You are the rescuer. You step in and solve it too early. It feels good.They appreciate it. The ownership is yours.They don’t move.
When it becomes a grind, that’s your clue. You were all excited.And then you weren’t. Nothing moved.You kept pushing. Now it feels like effort.
You see the entire journey.They only see the beginning and the desired end. The bridge exists.They can’t see it. So they hesitate.
In relationships, you propose when you’re fairly certain of a yes. In sales, proposals are often presented too early. You might be ready.They are not. Friction appears. A proposal should confirm alignment.Not create it.
They ask for more information. You send it.Nothing happens.You send more. They want time to think about it. You still think it’s their fault.
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