#0751 The Ideal Client
Most people define ideal clients by commercial fit. The longer you stay in business,the more you define them by human fit.
Most people define ideal clients by commercial fit. The longer you stay in business,the more you define them by human fit.
There comes a time when you should call it. You hang on for dear life.Thats more about you than the opportunity.
When you focus on what matters, everything else disappears. The same happens when you focus on what doesn’t.
Early success does not guarantee future success. The world moves.Markets evolve.People change. What once made you relevantcan quietly make you invisible.
Yesterday didn’t go to plan.If today I repeat it. Tomorrow will look familiar.
You have evolved. Your public narrative hasn’t. That gap is keeping you invisible.
Value and cost are different equations. Most people focus on immediate cost.Fewer consider opportunity cost. Almost nobody calculates delayed cost.Until it arrives.
It is easy to justify time spent.Harder to quantify outcome. Time gets defended.Results get explained away.
Your mind races ahead.Full of hope. You neglect what matters today to make it true.
If you were listening, you’d notice. Five people in the room.Three different conversations. Being the fourth isn’t helpful.
If they all drop you’re in trouble. Too many are sitting comfortably in your CRM.Many won’t close. That isn’t pipeline.That’s hope.
You make a point.I counter it. Neither of us changed our mind. We call it a good discussion.
You push for the sale.They agree. You chose for them.It won’t last.
You feel like you’re 95% there.Then it stalls. You send more information.Rework the proposal.Lower the price. And it still doesn’t convert. Your view of progress doesn’t count.
They didn’t get it.You move on. Try again with someone new.They don’t get it either. So you move on.
Excitement turned into resentment. You called.Sent even more info.Gaps increased. You start to question yourself.You’re asking the wrong question.
They ask for more information. You send it.Nothing happens.You send more. They want time to think about it. You still think it’s their fault.
You expect them to understand. You’ve spent years refining an idea.It’s elegant. In one session you expect them to fully comprehend. And when they don’t it’s their fault.
Experts become invisible when they answer too quickly. You will fill in gaps. Jump in too early. Answer before others have had time to think. This removes tension. The conversation continues. You feel better. They…
Experts become invisible when they explain too much. They are there to provide insight.Insights shared get nods.Ownership remains theirs. The room moves on. It is easy to provide answers.Much harder to allow others to co-author.