#0792 Better Aim
You miss every shot you don’t take. But if you miss most that you do,maybe your technique needs work. More shots aren’t always the answer. Sometimes you need better aim.
You miss every shot you don’t take. But if you miss most that you do,maybe your technique needs work. More shots aren’t always the answer. Sometimes you need better aim.
Share what moves them,not what moves you. It’s taken you years to understand what you do. Don’t expect others to arrive there in one conversation.
Every communication has three versions. What you intended. What you communicated. What they understood. Each has its own consequence.
Rare are two-sided conversations. One speaks, then another. Each protecting their own narrative. Neither really listening.Neither changing their thinking.
Timing is everything. The right message, at the wrong moment, is still the wrong message. The question was never what. It was when.
Reading the room is about perspective. Theirs.Yours.What actually happened. Only one of them is reality.
People won’t always get you. Not because they don’t care. Their perspective differs.Their context is incomplete. The same idea can look very different from another seat.
Most people define ideal clients by commercial fit. The longer you stay in business,the more you define them by human fit.
There comes a time when you should call it. You hang on for dear life.Thats more about you than the opportunity.
Too early, no deal.Too late, missed opportunity. Misdiagnosis is expensive.Not seeing it costs more.
It is easy to justify time spent.Harder to quantify outcome. Time gets defended.Results get explained away.
Everything is changing.Whilst everything stays the same. The tools come and go.First principles remain.
If you were listening, you’d notice. Five people in the room.Three different conversations. Being the fourth isn’t helpful.
If they all drop you’re in trouble. Too many are sitting comfortably in your CRM.Many won’t close. That isn’t pipeline.That’s hope.
You finally connect. The conversation was easy.Friendly. You call it a lead. It isn’t.
You make a point.I counter it. Neither of us changed our mind. We call it a good discussion.
You rush the sale. Champions don’t champion.They critique. The solution isn’t theirs to own.
You push for the sale.They agree. You chose for them.It won’t last.
You feel like you’re 95% there.Then it stalls. You send more information.Rework the proposal.Lower the price. And it still doesn’t convert. Your view of progress doesn’t count.
I’ll call you in three months. Two years later, they’re still in your pipeline.Not active. Just hopeful. False hope feels productive.