#0731 Move On
They didn’t get it.You move on. Try again with someone new.They don’t get it either. So you move on.
They didn’t get it.You move on. Try again with someone new.They don’t get it either. So you move on.
You see the entire journey.They only see the beginning and the desired end. The bridge exists.They can’t see it. So they hesitate.
In relationships, you propose when you’re fairly certain of a yes. In sales, proposals are often presented too early. You might be ready.They are not. Friction appears. A proposal should confirm alignment.Not create it.
Excitement turned into resentment. You called.Sent even more info.Gaps increased. You start to question yourself.You’re asking the wrong question.
They ask for more information. You send it.Nothing happens.You send more. They want time to think about it. You still think it’s their fault.
You expect them to understand. You’ve spent years refining an idea.It’s elegant. In one session you expect them to fully comprehend. And when they don’t it’s their fault.
Experts become invisible when they explain too much. They are there to provide insight.Insights shared get nods.Ownership remains theirs. The room moves on. It is easy to provide answers.Much harder to allow others to co-author.
Neutral language feels safe. You avoid offending anyone. It keeps conversations calm. It allows everyone to stay comfortable. It keeps the room balanced. It leads to neutral ideas. But neutral ideas rarely travel very far….
Reasonable discussions keep the peace. Clear discussions move the market. Getting nods of agreement in the boardroom feels comfortable but rarely leads to shifts in perspective. Being reasonable gets you likes, clarity gets you respect.
Being reasonable is a trait I have long held close. It signals balance. Good judgement. An ability to see both sides. It keeps the peace. But the market rarely rewards the most reasonable voice. It…
Being sensible is rarely criticised in business. It signals maturity. Stability. Good judgement. Makes you feel trustworthy. But sensible decisions compound into predictable lives. Predictable lives rarely produce remarkable outcomes. Most people don’t consciously stop…
What are you protecting. Every time you step into the ring your guard goes up. It could be your reputation, your identity, the perception of what others think of you. So we slip into comfort…
Stability is praised in professional life. It signals maturity. Reliability. Sound judgment. And yet, it is often the moment growth quietly stalls. The more comfortable you become, the less likely you are to step outside…
Stop here or keep moving. A choice you will make hundreds if not thousands of times every. single. day. With the volume turned up to eleven, we are inundated with choices, most of which you…
We’d never have rivers if water gave up when an obstacle felt too big. The light bulb, the plane and countless other innovations, all exist because they found a way. Nothing amazing happens in a…
If there was no 9-5 and you could work whenever you wanted, would more or less work get done? My guess is, for the vast majority it would be less. Discipline is more often mandated…
Your intention is being hijacked by your attention. What you allow to fill your day may be robbing you of your dream outcomes. You may be busy, but what exactly is taking up your time….
If you have too many nothing will get finished. Big goals break into projects, which in turn break into many tasks. The more big goals you have, the more the tasks compound into never ending…
Demand is not about your revenue goals for this month, that’s a consequence. Demand is the alignment of what your clients need, when they need it, based off what you can do for them at…
You are too shallow. Ticking the box is great, but stopping there just makes you busy. Getting the task done feels like an achievement but to go from good to great you must go deeper….