Not sure I would play cards with you if that is how you play the game.
Always looking for shortcuts, life hacks and cheat codes to win at life.
And who exactly are you competing against? Yourself I would argue for the most part.
The goals posts keep moving and it is not a game with a defined rulebook rather a series of adapting mazes with infinite possibilities depending on the last move.
Life, health, happiness is not a game you win, rather one of survival for longevity.
The fact that you are in the game should be considered a win in itself, enjoy every moment.