Have you ever hung around someone with a strong and distinct characteristic that after just a little while you find yourself mimicking?
Imagine a lifetime of picking up on all of these twitches, good or not so to create what is uniquely you.
Now I am sure there is something about yourself you wish to improve, we all do.
Seek out someone with that very skill and spend time with them.
Great if you know them personally but better still if you commit to being taught by them.
Deeply engage, be open and absorb what they have to offer. Study, practice and if you can, teach someone what you have learnt to solidify your depth of understanding.
Remember, you are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with, choose wisely.